Adelle,she is our sweetie pie.
Another shot with our sweetie pie.
Yes,I had been “keeping” Adelle home for the whole of 4 days,since Mon till Thurs.Used to not able to stay home for so many days in a row,but after staying home for long,more or less I am used to it with Adelle.Of course,I gonna train her to stay home during weekdays except weekends now before I hand over the caregiver role to my mum.
The reason why I used to not able to stay home everyday on weekends was that,I gonna go down to the coffeeshop and pack my own lunch and this is the part which I don’t like to go down often during lunch time,I simply too lazy.Now it’s a different story.I can cook my lunch almost everyday for Adelle and myself.At times we eat the same food for lunch except those days whereby I gonna take vegetarian.Then I will fried been hoon,noodles while Adelle takes her porridge for lunch.
It had now became so much simpler since I will always visit the wet market at Boon Keng to buy back all the groceries for that whole week.Since I’m cooking dinner often,therefore will tend to buy those groceries meant for lunch as well.This save me from packing lunch from the coffeeshop then.Therefore my fridge will be full of groceries which includes for lunch and dinner.
Being a mummy is not easy.Especially when being heavily pregnant at 6mths 2weeks and to handle an active toddler who loves to move up and down the house,climbing up the sofa,even climb up her stool to sit on.It makes things worst.No doubt others had always mentioned that it’s good to have kids which are 2 yrs apart.But it can be tedious.So I guess the best age apart for 2 children should be 3yrs.That’s my thoughts after going through this now.
Good thing about Adelle was that,she understands very well for the instructions given to her.This I don’t have much problem.At times she can understand so well and really behave too.For example,when we pop by a toy shop,be sure that she will go into the shop and play with whatever she sees there.After some time,I will tell her to go off and wave good by to the toys.She did so!!She knows it’s time for her to go after playing.This I teach the child on saying goodbye and leave a place after spending some time there.It’s all about parenting thou.
Seriously,Lord Ganesha had given us a child who is easy to teach and train.This we seriously thank for what was given.Just like today,we went to the master.He said this to me.During my pregnancy days with Adelle,I chant the mantra by Buddha.This is the fruit I had gained for the seed I had planted.That was why now I will make it a point to chant the mantra at home with Adelle for at least 30mins.I find it useful for those days whereby we don’t have a cool mind.
What shocked me the most was that.3days ago I am just thinking on myself that today I must get the tailman(fo paper or what we call it)from my master to drink for protection.So the min we sit in front of master,he passed me one tailman!!!I’m simply so shock and asked him how come he knows????He said he knows by reading,that was why prepared it for me some days ago and want to pass it to me today.Gosh,he is simply so accurate.
Master likes Adelle a lot thou.He had said to us,this is the “fruit” which we had gotten.Had advised us to pray well and in sincere.Adelle had this little fate with anyone she sees.Which means anyone on the street also like her even seeing her for the very 1st time.This I gonna admit.She really makes us happy each time we see her.So I believe in praying,pray to the God which I believe in.